The Unthinkable

Whats really up with our generation? Like wtf is up? Its just funny how, lol.
Okay, you know its some serious shit when a female say “its funny how..”, because,really shit dont be funny, it just dont be adding up.

Im just honestly trying to understand why people feel the need to re enter your life?

I mean after causing so much trouble in your life, its like you must forgive and forget what they’ve done and automatically accept them back. Not trying to throw shade at anyone, but its facts.

I dont know what it is, or why people realize when its too late, but it is what it is.

Yes? Everyone makes mistakes, but not everyone deserves a second, third and forth chance. Whats extra “funny” is some of these people never even deserved the first chance. 

Lol, ever felt like you was being set up, because someone you haven’t talked too in months, came through on some bullshit? On some “i miss you” “i miss us” kinda shit? What a time to be alive. 

I believe in keeping it real, even if its with myself, and even if you feel the same way, just IF , its just no way you could simply patch that up and proceed like nothing happened. Different strokes for different folks. 

Sometimes we let emotions get the best of us, which leads to us making decisions thats not the best for us. Sometimes we act too quick, or we dont act at all. Man, listen, i try to keep it real as possible on my page about shit i could relate too, and for the most part, what people who actually read my posts can relate too. 

And its just so funny because people think they can re enter our lives, because thats what we allow from them. When i say “ Rate Yourself Enough, To Understand Your Value” i really cant make that shit up, because i try to practice what i preach. Despite whatever !  I try to live to the fullest what i talk about, blog about, i try to match my actions with my words.

Like in all honesty you really cant let anyone disturb your peace. What you create for you, no one could take from you.You really have to be careful with who you allow in your space. Dont waste energy on dead situations or people. 

“An eye for an eye, leaves everyone blind” 

We all know its not easy at times, and, no, everyday is not a good day, but its what we make out of it. No, we can’t control what others do or say but we can certainly change the way we react, no doubt. 

Some say “forgive and forget”, but i say “ forgive and proceed”, because just because you forgave someone doesn’t mean you should move backwards.Things happen, people change, whether they’re in your life or not, life stops for no-one. When we let someone control too much of our emotions, thats when they try to take advantage, male or female. But its all about what you allow. Everyday is another opportunity for us to, learn and grow.

-this wasn’t suppose to be this weeks post, but things happen, stay tuned.

Always remember to Rate yourself enough to understand your value



  1. feel you a million times over babe, rns!

  2. “An eye for an eye, leaves everyone blind” , bey dawg, truer words have never been spoken jed. A lot of people do this though, I don't know why. I suppose it seems as though most people don't realize what they have until it's gone and they're stuck someplace over thinking. They realize that they don't have it as good as they once did, smell regret, and decide to revisit the good they once had. In most cases however, it's too late, which is very understandable after you've given someone a chance. Why give someone a chance again that has disappointed you over and over again. To put faith in someone and to have them let you down repeatedly is disheartening. I don't really believe in going back once it's done, I have done it however. The few times I have done this, it didn't work, essentially all the insecurities were still present. A failed relationship should never be revisited, that's my 2 cents.

    1. You’re absolutely correct, because onxe you keep giving out chances they’re not going to stop failing you...Thanks for constantly reading though ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ

  3. You hit the nail on the head with this. Very good read.... You can forgive someone and never speak to them again and it doesn't mean you don't care but you care about yourself more... Like I still wanna see you eat; just not with me anymore....

    1. RIGHT! Some fail to understand this, its okay to forgive and move forward. No need to look back, i wish you the best but its just time for me to move on.


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